Erineth
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Post by Erineth on Dec 13, 2004 8:16:34 GMT -5
Erm... I am in love with someone, who has a girlfriend and there is also someone, who is in love with me, but I don't feel the same and I do not know, how to tell him that... And this all makes me hate the whole world. Just like a soap opera
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Post by Billinhobbit on Dec 13, 2004 9:08:08 GMT -5
I was in love with a dude who had a girlfrend ones, I made frends with them both, and would go to there house all the time. after a year of being a good frend to both, and spending lots of time with them, I realised He was not my tipe after all. And when I stopt going over to hang out with them, they split up. lol. as for the dude who likes you, just stay frends and let him hang out with you. he my fined you are not his tipe when he realy gets to know you. sometimes we think a dude is so cool, but when we realy get to no them the felings fade, and we wonder why we liket them so much in the first place. But if we are ment to be with someone it will just happen. I fined spending lots of time with someone you like , will sort out how you realy feel. so make frends with all the cool dudes, you never know what mite happen. And dudes rely respeckt you if they know you like them but you dont do enythig becuz you respekt that they have a girlfrend. Good luck xxx
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Post by Lomadia on Dec 19, 2004 22:24:26 GMT -5
There's a lovely quote in I Capture the Castle by Dodie Smith that helped one of my friends in a similar situation. Perhaps it will help you as well. It's something like: The thought came to me that perhaps it's the loving that counts, not the being loved in return. That true loving knows nothing but happiness. I hope things will work out for the better! Elen sila lumenn omentielvo, Lomadia
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Erineth
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Post by Erineth on Dec 21, 2004 6:54:17 GMT -5
Thank you both. Now everything is ok, but if it wasn't, that beautiful quote would help me! It was not easy, but I let both of them go... I feel alright, because there are so many reasons to not have a boyfriend. Recently I have been extremely moody, sick, tired, full of tears and hatred. And I think that no one can understand me. None of my friends... I hate these days.
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Post by Billinhobbit on Dec 21, 2004 9:32:52 GMT -5
Wots rong Erineth? why are you so sad. Do you want to tell a oldish Hobbit like me. I have had lots of times in my life when I
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Post by Billinhobbit on Dec 21, 2004 9:37:41 GMT -5
Sorry this flipin p.c sent the post befor i had finished. now where was i. oh yes. I have had lots of times in my life when have felt like that. so i know how it feels when you feel all alone. If you want to talk about it, you can talk to me, im only a Hobbit, but i mite be abil to help. lots of hugs to you xxx
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Post by Eru on Dec 21, 2004 10:32:28 GMT -5
You can always edit your post. It's a button called modify in the upper right hand corner of your post. That way you can always fix things if you mess up. Christmas is coming. I can hardly wait. ;D
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Post by Billinhobbit on Dec 21, 2004 11:31:48 GMT -5
Thanks Eru. yes christmas, oh wonder what LOTR stuff i will get. cant wate, ;D
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Erineth
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Post by Erineth on Dec 21, 2004 11:55:27 GMT -5
Thanks, Billin. Actually, I don't know what's the matter. There are some reasons, some things that are happening in these days: - I cannot get any sleep - I have started a High School and maybe I haven't got accustomed yet - I have had an argument with my friends (2) - People say I don't eat well, but I'm stressed all the time, so I don't want to eat anything, but I also think it could be caused by that time when I was... I cannot tell you. It's a kind of illness. You don't eat anything & take too much exercise... Do you know what I mean? - I have some problems with my family - I feel lonely, repressed & hurt I think that's all.
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Post by Billinhobbit on Dec 21, 2004 12:39:12 GMT -5
When you are young, it feels like problams will never go away. and some dont. but most do, and the ones that dont, you learn to cope with. I think you should see your G.P (doctor) about how you feel, as you need to have help to get better. Dont keep it to your self. you have just as much right to be in this world as anyone. with help from people who understand you will lern to cope,even if you dont get better. Its like you are wering the one ring. most people wont understan what it is doing to you, but you must keep looking for the one who will understand. like sam with frodo. For me it was a cat who got me to mont doom and back. so you never know who or what that frend will be. But never give up . you have to fight this world and all that it has put on you, you will win. but you may have to ask or even beg for help. and you have the right to do so. Dont sit on your own telling knowone. screem and showt as loud as you can, let the hole world know how you feel. And the one who will stand by your side, will here you. and come to your aid. I am always here if you want to talk. and you dont need to screem for me to here you. If you want you can email me at billinhobbitt@yahoo.co.uk . Keep smileing. Hobbit hugs xxxx
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Post by Lomadia on Dec 21, 2004 18:39:14 GMT -5
Ditto here, Erineth. If you ever want to talk, my e-mail is shakespeare_girl88@hotmail.com . But I also think you need to talk to someone more capable than us of giving you advice. If your school has a counselor, try talking to them and see if they can advise you what to do. Or talk to your parents or a trusted teacher. It seems like you've already realized that you need someone to help you out, which is a great first step. I hope things work out well, and we are always here for you! Elen sila lumenn omentielvo, Lomadia
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Post by Lady of Light on Dec 23, 2004 9:11:29 GMT -5
Ohhh Lomadia...I like your avatar! Very cool!
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Pandora
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Post by Pandora on Dec 23, 2004 13:57:47 GMT -5
I really like it too! Isn't it from some book of Jean-Louis Fetjaine ?
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Post by Lomadia on Dec 24, 2004 0:03:09 GMT -5
Thanks! I'm not sure if it's in that book, Pandora. The painter is John Waterhouse, a more or less well-known Preraphaelite painter, and my personal favorite. Actually, Pandora, the avatar that you used to have was another of his paintings. I was always jealous of it, and since my last avatar was giving me direct-linking trouble, I decided to change it. The painting is simply named "Ophelia," and if you've been spending much time around any of the threads concerning books, you'll know that I'm a great fan of Hamlet, and of Ophelia especially. I'm really glad you like it! I'm just crazy about Waterhouse. If you want to see some more of his artwork, here's a great website: www.artrenewal.org/asp/database/art.asp?aid=79Elen sila lumenn omentielvo, Lomadia
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Pandora
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Post by Pandora on Dec 24, 2004 4:30:13 GMT -5
Thank you for the information and the website, Lomadia. *****'s The avatar that I used to have was called "Pandora's Box" (I'm not very sure). Because of its name and the name of the girl in the painting - Pandora - I used it. But I never knew who was the author... Thanks again ^___^ .
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